Attention: Moms & Dads Who Want It All –
A Healthy Romantic Relationship, Happy, Engaged Kids
(and Time Left Over for YOU, too!)
A Revolutionary 4-Week System Customized
for Parents with Kids of All Ages
Yes, you CAN have it all – a happy family life AND a passionate relationship. Give your child the greatest gift of all: A strong marriage (without the energy-sucking bickering).
From Dr. Patty Ann Tublin and Jenny Fenig
Dear Parent,
To an outsider looking in, it seems like you’re living the dream. You’re in a stable romantic relationship and have a beautiful family.
No matter how challenging raising children can be at times, you are lucky to have someone to spend time with every evening, someone to share parenting duties with, someone to laugh with, someone to love. This is everything you’ve dreamed of, right?
So why does it sometimes feel like you and your partner are from different planets? Is that whole Mars and Venus thing rearing its ugly head again? Why does it feel like certain topics - especially household chores like who does what and is it a fair division of labor, family commitments and in-law drama, and the “m” word: money - are lightning rod subjects because they are destined to start a fight? Why does it feel like you’re not on the same team even though you have brought children into your life? There HAS to be a better way.
Does any of this sound familiar? We did a survey of parents and this is what we heard...
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You often find yourself reminding your partner to do certain things (call your mother, send the email to the babysitter), and you then cringe at your partner’s response: “Stop nagging.”
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You sense of lack of urgency on your partner’s part for handling your child when they need help. You feel that your partner doesn’t anticipate what to do and how to help when the baby is acting up. Your partner just stands there and watches and does nothing -- while you handle it.
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You bicker about things that are little on the surface – like “why didn't you clean the baby's bottle?,” “I thought you were taking the kids to soccer practice?,” and “how could you lose your keys again?” -- but that are really about big things like trust, respect, and honesty.
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You argue about who is doing what. Even though you both discussed this before you had kids, or worse yet, maybe you didn’t, you still feel resentment that the other one does not appreciate what you are doing for your family (and you don't think the other one understands how hard each day really is).
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You used to be really good at communicating (that’s how you grew to know and love each other in the first place) but somehow communication has been thrown out with the garbage. You may have actually thought to yourself that you should get some help - not because you NEED it but precisely because you still don't – and you don't want it to get to the point of NEEDING it.
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Your intimacy has taken a hit. If you are bickering at the end of the day AND your sex drive is at an all-time low, you certainly don’t feel as close as you used to.
Let’s deal with reality here …
“Our culture has way too much mythology about new parenthood—that it’s all wonderful. When you see what the whole deal is actually like, it’s a big shock. Parents get irritated and exhausted and start blaming each other.” - Tina Tessina, Ph.D., LMFT, author of 2008’s Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage ”
The facts reveal a lot …
Did you know that two-thirds of couples become significantly less happy in their marriages after the first baby arrives, according to research funded by the National Institute of Mental Health?
It’s not a surprise when you think about it. In a relative instant after your first child is born, your entire life is changed. Romantic sex, leisurely workouts, a good night’s sleep, spontaneous dates, exotic vacations, relaxing weekends, and long, uninterrupted conversations with your friends—suddenly, that’s all a distant memory.
The love you have for your baby and for each other may, in the short term, be no match for the grueling toll of sleep deprivation, identity shifts related to your status as a parent, and increased financial pressure … just to name a few of the challenges you may be experiencing. ALL this adds up to conflict in your relationship – conflict that takes a toll on your relationship – and YOUR CHILD too!!
“Even at a young age, babies have a stress reaction to hearing their parents scream. The best gift you can give to your child is a strong marriage.” - Psychologist Deborah Roth Ledley, Ph.D
Don't despair because we have some GOOD news to share: Parenting DOES NOT have to tear you and your partner apart! It can actually have a huge bonding affect on your relationship … as long as you remember that you HAVE a romantic relationship in the first place. Just like a plant needs consistent water, sunlight and attention to thrive, your partnership REQUIRES regular nurturing and care.
That is precisely why we are so excited to share with you the system we’ve developed for having the family and relationship of your dreams. Our system is designed to help you STOP that annoying bickering (about chores, childcare and the like!) and REIGNITE the passion in your relationship, BOOST the happiness of your family, and FEEL pretty darn good about yourSELF, too!
Other than the obvious benefits of a healthy relationship, there is another HUGE (often unspoken of) reason why focusing on your relationship is SO important … and it’s this fact: The quality of your relationship with your partner DIRECTLY IMPACTS your child’s INTELLIGENCE and success in life.
First, though, you’re probably wondering who we are, and why you should listen to us.
Dr. Patty Ann Tublin is an internationally-known relationship expert who excels at helping couples create the relationships of their dreams. She earned a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, Master’s Degrees in Clinical Social Work and Nursing, and she is a Registered Nurse and a board-certified psychotherapist.
After a difficult pregnancy and long-term medical battle for her twin boys, Dr. Patty Ann and her husband realized that while they still felt deeply about each other, something felt different. They worked and worked to fix it, but the hard work with lack of success made them feel even worse.
Finally, Dr. Patty Ann took all her personal experience and knowledge and created strategies for helping her relationship – and it worked. Today, she shares those specific relationship techniques, exercises and workshops with her clients so they may reconnect with their partners and rebuild their relationships. Dr. Patty Ann’s husband, Mitch, is her biggest advocate in spreading her powerful message, even while he is pursuing his own, separate entrepreneurial efforts.
Dr. Patty Ann’s wisdom, experience and relationship advice combine to help the millions of couples out there who want a wonderful relationship with their partner while simultaneously being engaged parents to their children.
Jenny Fenig takes her inspiration from motherhood. After spending close to a decade climbing the corporate ladder in New York City (and not spending as much time with her husband as she wanted to), she got up the nerve to quit her 6-figure job to get certified as a yoga teacher, spend time at a yogic community (yes, she was having my very own ‘Eat, Pray, Love’ experience!), and then pursue her certification as a life and career coach. At the same time she gave birth to her dream business, another dream came true: she got pregnant.
When her son Sean was born, she made what she believes was the best decision as a new mom – she joined a support group in my neighborhood on the Upper West Side in New York City. Although her husband Steven is ultra-supportive, she quickly realized that no one understood what she was going through quite like another new mom. The group was a life-changer.
Jenny is an opportunity seeker. What did she do next? She decided to share this gift of support with as many moms as possible so she launched a successful support group series with babybites, the top social community for moms in New York City. These groups have given her an insider’s perspective on the unique challenges EVERY mom faces. Time and time again, moms confided in Jenny that their romantic relationship had “changed,” their sex life had plummeted, and they were arguing more than ever. Quite frankly, the moms were scared, frustrated and tired.
Jenny got it. She too faced challenges at home. Running a business, raising a son, and making time for her beloved yoga (a MUST in her world) started leaving less and less time for her and her husband to connect … on a deep level. It was taking a toll and she was getting worried.
Being the child of divorced parents, Jenny is determined not to go down that road. How do she and her husband keep it fresh? By trying new experiences to foster new levels of intimacy. One such experience was celebrating their 5-year wedding anniversary by going to a couples retreat at Kripalu in the Berkshires of Massachusetts (yes, she had to STRONGLY encourage her husband to come … luckily, he’s a good sport!). What they learned there set them up on a path to success and made them closer than they had ever been. They both are still glowing from their renewed connection.
When Jenny learns something that can improve your life for the better, she wants to SHARE it. She’s excited to share it with you …
TAKE HEART: It’s possible for YOU to feel closer to your partner than you have ever been, too. That magic, that electricity, that spark, that connection … it’s THERE … waiting to be UNLEASHED. Your children are watching you, taking cues from you, listening to the way you speak to each other. How satisfied are you with the way things are going? Do you think there is room for improvement?
We want to help. We have created something SO powerful for you …
“Post-Baby Relationship Makeover: THE Secret to Stop Fighting and Bickering and Bring the Passion Back FAST.”
This 4-week course is designed to provide you with a personalized strategy for striking the desired balance between a healthy romantic relationship, quality time with your kids (and time left over for YOU, too!).
Here’s just a taste of what you’ll get with our program:
Call 1 “How to be as Successful in Your Romantic Relationship as You Are as a Parent”
Wednesday, August 4th at 8pm Eastern
Call 2 “The 4 Essential Steps YOU MUST TAKE NOW to Put the Spark Back Into Your Relationship”
Wednesday, August 11th at 8pm Eastern
Call 3 “3 Crucial Areas That Lead to Family Success (or Failure)”
Wednesday, August 18th at 8 pm Eastern
CALL 4: “Gaining Clarity: The Success of Your Relationship (and Your Family) is Up to YOU”
Wednesday, August 25th at 8pm Eastern
During the course of “Post-Baby Relationship Makeover: THE Secret to Stop Fighting and Bickering and Bring the Passion Back FAST,” you’ll have the opportunity to e-mail us questions that arise during each call. We’ll take the time during this Clarity Call to answer them! So if there’s anything you want more details on, or any aspect of one of the issues we didn’t address, this is your chance to find out more! We’ll answer as many of the questions we receive from YOU as possible.
Here’s the call schedule again:
Call 1: Wednesday, August 4th at 8pm Eastern
Call 2: Wednesday, August 11th at 8pm Eastern
Call 3: Wednesday, August 18th at 8pm Eastern
Call 4: Wednesday, August 25th at 8pm Eastern
IMPORTANT: We know life as parents and human beings are BUSY … and that even though it’s the summer, you’ve got a lot going on. So don’t WORRY if you miss the calls at their scheduled time. Each call is recorded and will be sent to you as an mp3 file. You can listen in at a time that’s convenient for you.
So you may be saying, “This sounds fantastic,
Dr. Patty Ann and Jenny, how much is it all going to cost me?”
Before we answer your question, think about the answer to THIS one:
How much is it costing you to feel drained and exhausted from dealing with arguments, stress and anxiety caused by conflict in your romantic relationship? What is the cost to your children when there is bickering in the house? How much does this bickering impact their intelligence and success in their adult life? What is the cost to your peace of mind? Don’t you want more?
Imagine having the relationship of your dreams while SIMULTANEOUSLY having the family of your dreams. It is possible, and you can do it! So again, how much is it worth to you?
“Post-Baby Relationship Makeover: THE Secret to Stop Fighting and Bickering and Bring the Passion Back FAST” is a powerful 4-week course designed to help you get to the bottom of what is causing your romantic strife – and to give you real strategies that will help you balance your romance AND your family, LONG-TERM.
THE bottom line here is: You can’t AFFORD NOT TO do this.
We’re asking for a one-time investment of $247 for information that will work for your entire life, no matter how many children you have, or which stage your romantic (or not so romantic) relationship is in. If you and your partner take this course TOGETHER, it’s less than $125 per person (about the price of your daily latte) for LIFE-CHANGING information that will serve you AND your children for YEARS to come.
The only thing better than seeing your children THRIVE because of all your hard work is having someone to share the rewards with. You’re a team, right?
Think about how much better your life will be when you feel like you don’t have to tiptoe around your partner – when you feel like the two can live in harmony. How much is THAT worth?
And of course, you are protected by our 100% Money-back Guarantee!
 Both of us stand behind our products. Unlike other so-called ‘experts” we not only talk the talk but we walk the walk too! We’re parents and in committed romantic relationships, just like you are, and we understand the invaluable importance of a having a strong relationship as your foundation as you raise your children. That’s why we’ve designed this course to show you exactly how you can stop the fighting and bickering and bring the PASSION back fast in your relationship.
However, if after we begin, you don’t feel like this course is for you, just let us know before the start of the 2nd call! We’ll give you a refund, no questions asked. |
Ready to get started? Or, do you still have a few questions?
Q: We’ve been bickering for so long. How can I be sure that this course will really help?
A: You really can’t go wrong learning systems developed by two completely experienced professionals who are passionate about helping you. And remember, if there’s something that we don’t cover during the first 3 sessions, we’ll answer your questions during the Clarity Call.
Also know that life doesn’t usually offer the kind of time you need to simply BE and HONOR your relationship. Reflective time provides a chance to focus inward and to listen to that wise inner voice.
Turning inside to connect with your intuition is not only nourishing and positive, it’s also efficient and effective (benefits we know are important to you as a busy parent!). Don’t be surprised when solutions to issues come effortlessly, sudden clarity emerges, or a spontaneous realization leaves you with a fresh perspective.
Q: My kids are older and aren’t babies anymore. Is this course relevant for me?
A: Yes! This course is designed for parents with kids of all ages (and do they ever REALLY stop feeling like our babies?!). The participants who will get the most of it are those who truly want it ALL: a happy family life AND a passionate relationship.
Q: I’m not sure I can make all the classes. How do I make them up?
A: We get it – we’re just like you with partners and children at home and full schedules. To ensure you don’t miss any of our juicy content, all classes will be recorded and sent to participants within 24 hours. You can listen in at the time most convenient for you – in your car, on your iPod, or at home with or without your partner.
Q: My partner and I often fight about money. I think this course will be really helpful, but I’m not sure he/she will go for the investment in this program. How can I make my case?
First, know that you’re not alone in fighting about money. It’s one of the top things couples fight about. You’ll learn more about this during the course. Second, know that the communication and conflict resolution skills you’ll learn will give you the tools you need to build a greater foundation for your relationship and your family. Third, if you and your partner split the cost of this 4-week program, it’s less than $125 each. This program is worth a lot more than we’re charging, but we made a conscious choice to make it accessible to as many people as possible. We know how valuable this content is and believe the future of families depends on the success of the parental relationship.
Okay, now are you ready to get started?
